Why Gardening Is The Best Therapy



Pamela Page is one of those supremely talented plantswomen who can knock together a lavender parterre and then pen an inspiring piece about gardening in almost the same breath. A self-taught landscape designer (as many of the best gardeners are), she and her husband purchased an 18th century farmhouse in southern Connecticut – which seems to be something of a hothouse for talented horticulturalists (Bunny Williams' famous garden is also in the same part of the country) – and then embarked on an ambitious plan to restore the property. Ten years later, she has created a spectacular space that is so productive, she often sells the excess produce out of the back of her Mercedes each week.

I love the fact that she's happy to use her Merc as a luxury mobile wheelbarrow, but what I love more is that she calls gardening "sexy". She also uses the words 'spiritual', 'whimsical', 'healthy', and 'fun'. I have to say, I like Ms Page. She sounds like a gardener to love.

Recently, I discovered a piece that Pamela wrote about gardening for the Huffington Post – which you can find here: Why I Garden. I was so moved by it, I thought I'd compile my own little list. I'm not as erudite as Pamela Page (far, far from it), but I still hope it inspires some of you to take up this wonderfully therapeutic activity at some stage of your lives.


WHY I GARDEN...


I garden because it's procrastination disguised as a spade. Plus, you can hide in a garden –whether with a digging fork or a good book – and no one will ever know you're there! But if you're cooking raspberry tarts in the kitchen or watching Oprah re-runs in the living room, you have no excuse for your pathetic lack of productivity.


I garden because it's cheap therapy. If I'm mad I can go out to the potager and stick a rake in a weed's heart. Or do something unmentionable to a slug.


I garden because it's great exercise. Pulling up weeds, shovelling soil or hauling bundles of leaves to the compost heap is almost as exhausting as doing a spin class.

I garden because – like a relationship – it takes effort, hard work and lots of love to reap rewards. It won't grow if you don't give it life.



I garden because there is nothing better than wandering out at twilight to pick some fresh rosemary for the roast lamb, or plucking a just-ripe lemon to slice for your evening G&T.

I garden because some of the loveliest people in the world are gardeners.


I garden because I like sticking up for the underdog. While some horticultural snobs prefer the posher produce – such as the Purple Podded Dutch thingamebob (apparently it's the Elle Macpherson of beans) – I'm happy to support the little fellas. Such as the good old-fashioned radish.



I garden because it is not for poseurs or pretentious souls. It doesn't matter whether you own a late-model Merc or a McLaren F1, whether you went to Harvard or the Sorbonne, or whether you wear head-to-toe Chanel or haute couture. If you can't grow a squash or some other simple thing, you're not going to last very long.

I garden because it's the only subject in the world where, no matter how much you learn, you will still never know it all. Even Rosemary Verey admitted she was still an amateur.


I garden to be surprised. A new-spring hyacinth one day. A perfect pink summer peony the next.


I garden because even the unwanted flowers are beautiful. (Japanese anemones grow like weeds where we live. But oh – what beautiful weeds they are!)


I garden because it's a living painting. And you get to be Monet for a day. (Or longer, if you're lucky.)


I garden to smell the scent of jasmine on a beautiful spring morning.


I garden because, even though I don't know the Latin names of plants ("what's that pink thingy called" is my oft-repeated phrase at our local nursery), and I often mispronounce names (Pittosporum is such a silly word anyway), the Latin Set still forgive me.



I garden in order to be enthralled by heirloom seeds. Such as Listada di Gandia. And Bohemian Pumpkins.

I garden because there are few things more entrancing than a hand-drawn garden plan.


I garden because a potting shed is one of the most magical places you will ever see.


I garden because it's humbling. Mother Nature is a wicked boss. You can spend a day preparing a lawn and then a heat wave will hit. You can spend a weekend planting an avenue of pears and then a disease will float in on some foul wind. And you can spend a month digging out a potager and planting all your beloved vegetables, only to find there's not enough sun in that spot to grow even a spinach leaf.


I garden because if you try being a little rebellious, it won't work. (For example, just try ignoring your mother's advice and growing that Japanese wisteria or Robinia Casque Rogue and see how much it overtakes the house.)


I garden because there is nothing more spectacular in the world, in my opinion, that the Chelsea Flower Show.


I garden because the rhythm of the seasons makes one aware of one's own mortality.

I garden because it nourishes the soul.

Thank You Desire to Inspire!



Just dropping in to say a big heartfelt thank you to the lovely Jo and Kim at Desire to Inspire for listing The Library of Design as one of their "100 Blogs of 2011", alongside great blogs such as Vogue Living and one of my favourites, Field Notes – Your Guide to the Great Indoors.

Many of you may be familiar with Desire to Inspire, which is one of the world's top design blogs. I've loved it for years. Its design insights, ideas, profiles and stories are some of the best in the online world. I don't for one second think that this little blog is up there with DtoI or even Vogue Living, but it is nice to be recognised for the effort that goes into posting, even if it's only a tiny mention in a list of 100 blogs.

While we're on the topic of new blogs, and even great old ones, I'd like to list some of my favs, both here and in my "Kindred Spirits" Reading List to the left. I think it's nice to support other bloggers, especially newbies, and these are all full of great inspiration and conversations.

I'm looking forward to returning to The Library in a few days, and hope you'll like the line-up of posts for early January, including:

• Traditional Shelter Magazines vs Online Blogs (a different take on the topic, being that I'm a former magazine editor!)
• An Architecture Tour of Miami and the Keys
• Secrets of London
• Extraordinary Homes of 2011
• Linen Rooms, Luggage Rooms, Serveries and Other Curious Spaces
• City v Country Life, Part 3

Until then, have a lovely New Year's Eve!
Janelle


A FEW GREAT BLOGS (AND GREAT BLOG NAMES!)

Bourbon and Pearls – bourbonandpearls.blogspot.com
Sweet Paul – sweetpaul.typepad.com
Spoon Fork Bacon – spoonforkbacon.com
Zucchini and Chocolate – chocolateandzucchini.com
The New Victorian Ruralist – finderskeepersmarketinc.blogspot.com
Busy Being Fabulous – www.busybeingfabulous.typepad.com or www.busybeingfabulous.com

And this hysterical blog – unhappyhipsters.com 

"Trapped by the tawny palette, he struggled through yet another brown knit scarf..."


"Everyone always leaves..."

From The Fuchsia Files...

The always glamorous, always gorgeous, always funny Faux Fuchsia has posted the most wonderful list on her blog this week. She's dubbed it Stuff That Makes Us Happy, and invited readers to contribute to it. Some of the suggestions are pure gold. Here are a few of the loveliest. Go to her blog –fauxfuchsiastyle.blogspot.com – for the full list.

Old people who hold hands.
A good night's sleep.
A garden.
The cool of an early morning before a hot day.
The beach in the rain.
Big roses.
Good cheese.
Fresh bed linen.
The sound of rain on a tin roof as you go to sleep.
A brand new notebook, ready to write notes in.
Being driven around New York in a town car.
Finding great books in the library.
Meeting old people who still love a good joke and a stiff drink.
Hydrangeas.
Gardenias.
Pedicures and shoes.
The sound of a swimming pool you have all to yourself.
Reading airfreight American Vogue.


These were some of mine:

The smell of summer gardens after the rain.
Discovering a wonderful garden, particularly a walled garden.
Packing a bag to go overseas (and the lovely sense of anticipation that goes with it - before you remember you need to travel through 26 airports...)
New York at Christmas.
Paris in September.
The sight of mauve wisteria on a grand old mansion.
Holding hands with my partner.
Home-made food of any kind.
Receiving a funny, kind or touching email, text or Facebook note from a friend.
The sheer pleasure of sitting down for half an hour to read a good magazine, such as Vogue Living.
Meeting a lovely shop owner, who remembers your name the next time you go in.
Happy people.
Interviewing a celebrity and discovering they're actually very nice. (NB Most celebs I've interviewed have been nice. I've only met one truly awful one; a former Australian prime minister.)
Chatting with teenage girls about boys, and shoes, and life.
Finding a lovely note that my partner has left for me to read, even though I've been grumpy all morning.
Making a chicken pie for my partner and seeing him eat it, and smile with delight, even though I know that it tastes like old flip flops.
Flicking through old photo albums, including other people's old albums. (There's something beautiful about old black and white photographs, isn't there?)
Holidays on the beach.
People who are gracious and kind.
People with lovely manners.
People who come for afternoon tea and bring French Champagne with them. (Love those people!)
Husbands and boyfriends who never remember to bring you flowers and then produce a sad, wilted bouquet from Safeway out of the blue with the line: "I thought you'd like these". (Like my man did yesterday.) So sweet.
Airlines that upgrade you. With you having to ask.
Drivers who let you into their lane, right in front of them, and then wave and smile at you.
Pomegranates, raspberries and blueberries - especially with really good quality vanilla ice cream.
Snorkelling on the Great Barrier Reef. (Nothing but the sea and the tropical fish - bliss.)
Eating pomegranates or blueberries after you've been snorkelling on the reef, preferably on a beautiful yacht. Then having a sea plane come to pick you up and take you to lunch on a nearby island.
The lovely pink light at twilight, especially in the countryside.
Orchards.
Old-fashioned bikes. With old-fashioned wicker baskets.
White cottages.
Finding a favourite Chanel lipstick on sale that you thought was discontinued.
The scent of a new book.
Swimming in the sea when the water is calm and warm.

What are some of yours? Feel free to leave a note here, or add to Faux Fuchsia's extensive list.

A Modern Manifesto


I love Jonathon Adler's witty, whimsical, entirely-inappropriate-but-still-so-irresistible manifesto for life, some of which I've included below. Inspired, I have whipped up a little one of my own.


THE JONATHAN ADLER MANIFESTO 

WE BELIEVE that your home should make you happy.
WE BELIEVE that when it comes to decorating, the wife is always right. Unless the husband is gay.
WE BELIEVE minimalism is a bummer.
WE BELIEVE tassels are the earrings of the home.
WE BELIEVE in our muses: David Hicks, Alexander Girard, Bonnie Cashin, Hans Coper, Gio Ponti, Andy Warhol, Leroy Neiman, Yves Saint Laurent, and Madonna.
WE BELIEVE in the innate chicness of red and brown.
WE BELIEVE in being underdressed and overdressed always.
WE BELIEVE in infantile, happy emblems like butterflies and hearts.
WE BELIEVE in rustic modernism: Big Sur, A-frame beach houses, raw beams, and geodesic dome houses.
WE BELIEVE in Palm Beach style: Chinoiserie, Lilly Pulitzer, The Breakers circa '72.
WE BELIEVE dogs should be allowed in stores and restaurants.
WE BELIEVE you should throw out your Blackberry and go out and pick some actual blackberries.
WE BELIEVE colors can't clash.
WE BELIEVE our lamps will make you look younger and thinner.
WE BELIEVE in irreverent luxury.

AND ANOTHER VERSION...

WE BELIEVE everybody should be made to go to Paris. At least once.
WE BELIEVE in the crisp sophistication and timeless elegance of black and white.
WE BELIEVE good manners never go out of style.
WE BELIEVE travel is the best education you'll ever receive.
WE BELIEVE in white verandahs, beautiful views, chic outdoor settings and dirty martinis (preferably all together).
WE BELIEVE that Champagne is the answer to everything.
WE BELIEVE books are life enhancing, and libraries are (almost) better than sex.
WE BELIEVE in our muses: Cecil Beaton, Coco Chanel, Christian Dior, Karl Lagerfeld, Diana Vreeland, David Hicks, Dorothy Draper, Anouska Hempel, Audrey Hepburn, George Clooney and Brad Pitt. (The last two just for the eye-candy factor.)
WE BELIEVE simple white timber beach houses are the best beach houses of all.
WE BELIEVE your marriage and children should make you happy. And your home should come a close second.
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